New York Region > ‘Excuse Me. May I Have Your Seat?'” href=”http://www.nytimes.com/2004/09/14/nyregion/14subway.html?ei=5090&en=cb9818cd9c7e70d2&ex=1252900800&partner=rssuserland&pagewanted=all”>’Excuse Me. May I Have Your Seat?’

Asking people to give up their seats on the subway was more tramautic for the person asking the question than for the person having to give up their seat